Love, What it is? :/

Love, what is it? I find it very confusing sometimes.  Well, one thing is sure that it’s a beautiful feeling. It makes you feel happy and good. Some people say there are different kinds of love, physical love, affection, True love etc. I have one friend whom I asked “What is Love?”  He said: “It’s all about getting physical pleasure”. Further he said: “there is nothing like a true love, person do love because there body demands”. Well for some time I felt it’s true. But still, my curiosity doesn’t going to fade so easily. I want to know more. So, one day I asked to one of my another friend, who just had a break-up. He told me “Nitesh, love is that thing which gives you pain always, it can’t give any person happiness”. Well, I thought he said so because he was suffering from post break-up syndrome. But, one of another friend repeats the same. I asked him did he also have a break up. He said no. Then I asked him why are you saying like this? He told me “There are nothing like LOVE exists in this world”. I asked him why you saying so? He replied “My dear Stupid friend, if love exists, how come any one got hurt in love? How come every person got ditched?” I first felt anger, because he called me stupid, but after his answer I was speechless. I said my self he is right. Because, if a thing like “love” would be there then people shouldn’t get hurt or ditched. But, again my curious mind can’t got enough. So, I asked again to my friend who had a break-up, and he replied “I told you earlier, and I am repeating again, it’s a thing which always gives pain”. But this time I asked him if you knew this earlier why did you go for it. He told me he was blind at that time. So, I asked him again, every one fell in love and I don’t think every people in this world are blind. But, they all say ‘love is blind’. He replied “I can’t answer it; you will get to know only when you fall in it”. I said, I want to, but don’t know how to fall in love. He replied you are lucky! Otherwise, you would be crying in pain like me. But I said, "I want to feel this for once anyhow. He warned me again, but after my same repeated answer he told me no one knows how to fall in it, it just happens. I said; don’t repeat a Bollywood Dialogue, please. He said, "No, it’s true." And he wished me good luck. Well, I didn’t have the answer of my first question, Now I had one more, ‘How to fall in love?’ Now, this love thing is making me restless. Well, then one day, I got visited by my best friend, and he felt my restlessness. He asked me about it. I told him everything. He laughed at me. I got angry. Then, he said “Listen love is like a cord, which knit two different people in one. It is a gift of god to the human. But, some people don’t understand it.” I was amused with his answer. I asked him, “how do you know this, are u in love?” He laughed again, and replied, “No stupid”. Now, I got angry, I thought if he is going to laugh again, and called me stupid, I will break his teeth and present him as ‘gift’. He felt my anger from my face, and stopped laughing, and replied, “ See, you don’t have to fall in love with any other person to find out, just look around yourself, you are surrounded by the people who loves you, and adores you, same as you do. There is love all over the place; you don’t need to go anywhere to find out. Don’t you love your mother, father, brother, friends?” I replied, “Yes I do”. He said, “Then, why you going elsewhere to find out, ask yourself what love is?” Well, I told myself, hey he is right; I don’t have to go anywhere else to find out, I can find out by myself. I thanked him.

                                                                                Well, as my best friend cleared my mind, I again got busy looking for my answer. This time I didn’t asked anyone. I asked myself, what is love? Then I got a reply, the way my mother looks at me when I am eating my favorite ‘Gazar ka halwa’ cooked by her, especially for me. And when she gives one bowl full to everyone, and gives me two bowls.That is love. The way my brother, fights with me, and when he is in crisis and I want to get him out of it at any cost. That is love. (To be continued…)

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Kashmir Burning Needs Love Not Violence

Kashmir, A integral part of India, is burning with hatred, violence. As you all know about recent Kashmir Protest against Indian Government, it started with Shopian rape and murder case and now it is still going on with daily murders of local youths. Well, i don't know why Omar Abdullah is behaving like a 5 year old child when dealing with this issue. The continuous ball throwing can be seen between CM Omar Abdullah and Home Ministry. This was the golden opportunity to show Mr. CM his potential. At the time of election People participated in elections and voted the current Government. They had expectations with the new Government. But soon people get to know that this new Government is no NEW. What people of Kashmir needs is love, fear-less life and space to grow. But, instead, they are forced to live under terror of security forces, separatists. I am not saying that Indian Government should withdraw security forces. But what i am saying is to make a friendly fear-less environment over there. Treat them like own not like other citizens. When, people protest on other parts of india, force don't fire, instead they throw water, arrest them and control them. But, in Kashmir forces are firing. Taking lifes of teens, kids, who even don't know why all are throwing stones on forces. They do it because they see elders doing same. The J&K Government should try to meet people, tell them not to pelt stones and give them opportunities to live life like a normal other citizens of INDIA.

I hope, Mr. CM soon get a good mind. :)